2014: The Year I Let Everyone Use Me, Including Myself

It wasn’t one guy.

It was all of them.

A parade of maybes and fuckboys and

“I don’t usually do this”

until I stopped remembering what I liked,

what I wanted,

what I needed.

College slipped away quietly.

Assignments ignored,

dreams postponed indefinitely.

I was chasing dopamine in people

who didn’t even save my number.

And I told myself I was choosing this.

But it felt more like falling

than flying.

The only time I felt close to anything was right after it ended.

Naked, buzzing,

empty.

That’s how I knew I’d gone too far

even the booze stopped working.

Even the high felt low.